Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Hmpf.

I've been feeling super depressed recently and I figured it would be good to write it all out. Here are some reasons/crap I'm dealing with:

*I have insomnia and sleep like shit all the time

*I have fibromyalgia and feel like shit all the time

*I have migraines and get them all the time

*I have endo and have cramps all the time

*I have depression, anxiety, PTSD, etc and struggle with it all the time

*I have infertility issues and struggle with them all the time

*I have finance problems and struggle with them all the time

*I have tons of insecurites and struggle with them all the time

*I'm overweight

*I'm starting a new job this month, that I am DREADING

*Ray and I aren't really getting along right now

*I am not taking Clomid next cycle, so I feel like this cycle was my last chance.

*I'm about to move onto #14

*Part of me doesn't even want to TTC anymore

*I don't know/think if I like my CBEFM

*I'm having stomach problems from all the stress

*I don't have family close by/I miss my mom, dad and brothers

*I want to run away

*I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired

*I had a nightmare that my dog ate Darby and even though she's still really alive and safe, I still feel like she's gone and my heart is breaking. (I hate dreams like that..it was really graphic).

*I'm so depressed that I don't want to go talk to my therapist tomorrow..which I usually look forward to.

*I feel myself completely shutting down.

*I feel like I'm broken, empty, worthless, fat, ugly, a bad person.

*I can't imagine why anyone would like/love/want to be around me.

*I feel like I don't deserve Ray because of all of the above.

I'm getting pretty desperate... I'm just so tired.

4 comments:

Jennifer said...

This makes me cry because to me you are an angel. You are beautiful and wonderful. You have so much worth and I know you don't see it (because I often think this way of myself) but other's do.

I understand so much of what you have said. I too sometimes think it would be easier if it all went away. I haven't had those sort of thoughts since I was a child and it's so scary.

I wish there was a way that your pain could be healed, headaches, endo, and Fibro; because living in constant pain can make one desperate and def. not want to fight anymore. If I could I'd take it all away because you don't deserve any of this.

I love you my friend and I'm so sorry you are struggling.

SweetPea said...

I love you May!!!!!! And you know that. :) Please remember, I'm here for you all of the time.

Mari said...

I am so sorry that you are feeling this way.

You are such a beautiful, smart, wonderful person and it blows that you have to deal with so much.

I wish there was something I could do to make you feel better.

A huge hug to you.

JackiJaguar said...

Oh, May. That's such a long list to deal with and I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. As somebody who only knows you from the Nest and now from your blog, I can still say that you're a gift to everyone on our board. I'm very grateful that you're a part of it. I wish I could make even some of that list disappear.